People who suffer from guilt and shame seem to major on the “wretched man” type Scriptures (Rom. 7:24), insisting that the heart is deceitful (Jer. 17:9) or we are sinful (Isaiah 1:4). Yes, of course, Scripture says we are sinners, but sinners saved by grace! It’s when we insist on our own way and walk in our own understanding that we are corrupt. Once we accept Christ, we are the righteousness of God by faith (Phil. 3:9) and we have the mind of Christ (1 Cor. 2:16). Sure, we can still sin and walk in self, but that’s where sanctification comes in. What we must remember is God’s character—his gentleness, loving-kindness, and mercy. We must remember Romans 8:1! If you are a believer, God’s intention is to conform you to the image of Jesus Christ (Rom 8:29), not to condemn you. And frankly, he’ll stop at nothing until he accomplishes this goal. He’s on your side! Romans 8:31 is the best news ever!
So if you’re struggling with either guilt or shame, the good news is that God has an app for that. He’s on your side. Make the correct diagnosis and apply the correct remedy. Apply it over and over until your thoughts and feelings are in alignment with God’s word. You’ll be amazed at the change in your behaviors. Let me know how it works for you.