Since I have primary responsibility for my 94-year-old mom, I’m always interested in books on caregiving for the elderly. Kregel Publications has recently published a new addition to my stack. Take My Hand Again: A Faith-Based Guide for Helping Aging Parents by Nancy Parker Brummett is a gentle, encouraging book for caregivers. It is ideal for someone who has recently been thrust into this position and is looking for answers, or for an adult child who is looking ahead and realizing that Mom or Dad will need help in the near future.
Brummett uses short vignettes and examples to lighten the overwhelmingness of her information. She offers useful data, websites, and resources, as well as practical information that is grounded in both personal experience and excellent research. She doesn’t assume that all parents are alike, so offers a variety of solutions to the most common issues. The faith-based approach is present, but not off-putting if someone is not a Christian. The one thing that is missing is caring for parents with whom you don’t have a good relationship or parents who didn’t care for you. Throughout the book, she assumes that you had and have a good relationship with your parents and want to be helpful. If that isn’t your story, read the book anyway, and find the rest of what you need elsewhere.
For the rest of this month, Amazon is offering the book for $2.99—a huge savings over their usual price of $12.32.