The Hardest Peace: Expecting Grace in the Midst of Life’s Hard

Kara Tippetts knows about hard. A pastor’s wife and mother of four, she has faced a church split, heart problems, a wild fire that threatened their home, stage four breast cancer, a radical hysterectomy due to tumors in her uterus and ovaries, and brain cancer. She has endured endless tests, surgeries, chemo, and radiation. And yet, she writes graciously and poetically of God’s grace in the midst of life’s hard. With remarkable vulnerability, she shares how her illness has affected her life and the lives of those she loves. She shares about her marriage, her childrearing, and her fears. She even shares how she encouraged her husband to remarry when she is no more.

The Hardest Peace: Expecting Grace in the Midst of Life's Hard by Kara Tippetts

The Hardest Peace: Expecting Grace in the Midst of Life’s Hard by Kara Tippetts

Tippet says that brokenness is not to be feared, but rather to be received humbly. She affirms unwavering faith in the midst of crushing blow after crushing blow. For her, faith is faith in the moment, for we cannot count on more than this moment. She says, “hard is often the vehicle Jesus uses to meet us, point us to that peace, and reach us grace.”

Tippet’s style is gentle, poetic, and shows a depth cultivated through suffering. My only criticism of the book is the lack of any discussion of prayer for healing. She writes of the many people praying for her and her family, but the sense is that these are prayers for coping, not for healing. It grieves me when I see Christians whose default is acceptance of suffering as from the hand of God. Yes, sometimes God allows suffering, but is it a gift? Is it from him? Or does he call us to pray and believe for healing? I understand that he doesn’t always heal, but if we are to be New Testament believers, how can we deny that Jesus always healed everyone who asked, and healing was the norm in the early church. I fear that we have abdicated that essential tenant of our faith in deference to the flawed theology of Dispensationalism and cessationism. I would have appreciated the book more had she shared of individual and corporate prayers for her healing before resigning herself and her family to living in the hard.

That criticism notwithstanding, this is a gentle book of grace for those who are facing the hard in their lives. The publisher has graciously provided a book for me to give to a reader. So if you or someone you know is facing the hard of life and you would like to read “The Hardest Peace,” leave a comment below. I’ll randomly draw one person’s name and send you a copy of the book.

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2 thoughts on “The Hardest Peace: Expecting Grace in the Midst of Life’s Hard

  1. Valerie Benavidez

    I DO believe that suffering is a gift just as healing is a gift. I think we’re viewing suffering from a worldly point of view when we assume it’s something to be relieved of. Who are we to know what God is doing in and around our suffering? How can we know even the smallest part of His purposes? Sometimes God doesn’t lead the sufferer to pray for healing. When our son was diagnosed with a brain tumor, the Presence of God was so very real. We could almost palpably feel Him sustaining us. We also knew from God without a doubt, that our job, for however long it was to last, was to prepare our son for eternity. Praying for healing, which many well-meaning fellow Christians wanted us to do, would have expended precious energy in a direction we were not told to go. The death of His saints is precious to Him. I don’t think the greatest good is necessarily to try to remain alive as long as we can.
    That said, I so appreciate your emphasis on choosing to live positively and well in the midst of suffering. God is the one to decide which route will bring Him the most glory in each life, whether to accept with grace your upcoming death, or to sincerely pray and believe Him for healing.


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